Spotlight | Nicole Payzant
I met Nicole as a child and we rekindled a friendship in our early twenties. Nicole is one of the most lovely women I know.
1.How would you describe yourself?
I am a lover of love... and maker of things.
There enters wedding photography.
I am introverted... a bit of a hermit, even... a proper cat lady even at 26.
2. What role does creativity play in your life?
Since I was a child I have been labeled with the word "creative". I think that label has evolved in my lifetime.
My mother is a creative. She thrives on making and creating. In my home, tole painting, scrap booking, puzzles, cake decorating, and other crafts were a normal sight. I remember painting with shaving cream on the bare kitchen table as a young child. It has always been a part of who I am, and what "play" is for me. I've never known anything different.
To many people, "creative" was a way of saying "artistic".
In THAT context, it became both a source of pride and also pressure to perform. I think it still is. I was good at creating because as with everything I gave it my full attention. My desire to excel meant I continued pushing my abilities. There became an expectation, a standard, that I had to meet--or surpass--before I'd be happy with a project.
In the last couple of years, with "the creatives", I am reclaiming the label of "creativity". Removing the pressure. Focusing on the pull towards creative play.
Even if it is simply colouring with crayons. Learning to crochet a scarf. Teaching myself basic embroidery.
3. What are you currently working on?
Professionally, I am finishing up my 2016 season with a few engagement sessions for next years' couples. I will have a few weeks before picking up the camera again.. I'm looking forward to that break.
I have also been creating a list of little things to make and do this November/December, for the sole purpose of bringing me creative joy... recharging my batteries.
I'm going to try making my own air-dry clay. And figure out some outdoor winter decor on a budget.
Also baking. I am making Christmas baking happen this year.
4. What was the last book/movie that left an impression on you?
I am not much of a reader anymore... but Eat, Pray, Love. Read on my trip to Sri Lanka this past April. Would read again.
5. What advice would you give to other creatively driven people?
I don't feel comfortable advising just anyone, as each persons experience is different. But I can share advice I have learned or been told over the last six years:
If making feels like work, (as will happen when you are a professional creator), try something new. Make room for creative play. Even if it is just colouring in front of the t.v.
Be conscious of the expectations you set on yourself, and their validity. Use expectations to drive you--not crush you.
Learn to say no, and be selective in your creative projects so you are still able to find joy in what you are doing. I have kept my waitressing job on the side, so I am able to be more selective in what I take on as a photographer.
"Comparison is the thief of joy".