Reads | Winter 2025

The Situation and the Story | Vivian Gornick

For those who are studying the craft of writing this book is essential. Pick it up. It own’t dissapoint.

Meander, Spiral, Explode | Jane Alison

A lovely book designed to help a writers brain break open and find all the possible ways in which narrative can find itself in a non linear format.

You’ve Changed | Pyae Moe Thet War

Despite the kickback against this book and it’s author regarding their privilege and placement in culture I found the break down essays on their name and the culture clash that they experienced with their name fascinating and beautifully written. Walking my own daughter through her middle names, why we chose them and her own identity crisis about them is eye opening and a privilege to behold. I think many people with names not based in an Anglo-Saxon linguistic while navigating a majority Anglo-Saxon demographic and world order structure will relate to this.

The Ten Thousand Doors of January | Alix E. Harrow

Complex, riveting and one of the most captivating reads I have had in a long time. Not worth spoiling, just read it.

A Court of Frost and Starlight | Sarah J Maas

A small bridge story between books in Sarah’s Court of Thorns and Roses series. A perfect read during the snow falls of January / February.

The Midnight Library | Matt Haig

I adored this read. It was not what I was expecting and.I found myself imagining what I would do if I was in my own midnight library. Truly a masterpiece.

Crown of Midnight | Sarah J. Maas

A distraction read during stressful times. Sarah J. Maas is becoming a comfort read.

Your Roots Cast a Shadow | Caroline Topperman

This book echoed into not only the current day that we are living now as I write this, but also into all of the spaces of my own heart and mind. As the first chapter states so well: “Our history, our roots is deeply planted. It’s vital that we not let these roots be wrneched from the ground, let alone used to clobber others.”
Hoe we anchor in to who we are and how we leverage that ‘identity’ causes impact, for the better or worse. Caroline doesn’t villanize, she sheds light. And we all know that light has a way of casting shadows.

Here in the Real World | Sara Pennypacker

A beautiful story about a boy who just wants his own bit of earth. In many ways - it reminds me of the summer-boy version of The Secret Garden. Both hurting souls looking to be seen by the land and company before them.

Pax | Sara Pennypacker

Sara weaves a tender and beautiful story between a young boy and his pet fox. Through the eyes of both the boy and the fox we learn of the pain and the joys of connection and what it means to be lost and finally, found.

A Curious Beginning | Deanna Raybourne

The first in the Veronica Speedwell Series. A much needed read to take a break from serious non fiction writing and reading for my masters. It helps that the heroine is a spicy independent victorian intellect.

Experiments in Imagining Otherwise | Lola Olufemi

Sometimes it’s enjoyable to just tip toe around words and see how they hit you. This was an expiermental read.

Your Spiritual Almanac | Joey Hulin

I adore this book as a friend during the year. I have finally reached the end of my full fiscal year journey with it and can safely say it will be with me for the end of time. I love books that give you monthly prompts to stay aware of the changing seasons. This book provides practical seasonal advice and knowledge like flowers and food that is in season but also helpful spiritual open ended thoughts to help connect the mind, body and spirit.

Favourite Things | Winter 2025

Star Pillow | Indigo

Since Autumn, when I added a pumpkin pillow to our sectional couch for the giggles, we have realized that a cuddle pillow for the season is a fun additive for us all. Seeing this star pillow during a walk through Chapters / Indigo was a no-brainer for me for the winter season.

Complete Greek Myths by Usborne

Because we bought ourselves Mythos by Stephen Fry it felt apt that we picked up this visual version for our pre-teen.

Celine Dion | Lets Talk About Love Vinyl | Taz Records

With Celine coming back at the Paris Olympics, coupled with her latest documentary, I started to go back into my canon of music and realized I love her music even more now. Her passion, dedication, and quality of the craft are uniquely hers, surpassing her talent. I was eight years old in 1997, and these songs played in the malls, stores, radio, etc, which I believed helped define my childhood in the 90s.

Merit Lipsticks | Merit

I’ve been running out of lipstick lately. Something about the silky softness of Merits got me good.

Meditations by Marcus Aurelius

I picked this up to pick away at as I enjoyed Stoic philosophy last year.

Both Sides Now | CODA version

This winter I have been enjoying Joni Mitchell’s “Both Sides Now” in my winter playlist and also to play on the piano. This version from CODA is another rendition that hits the feels!

2025 | A Year of Divine

divine

adjective (diviner | dəˈvīnər |, divinest | dəˈvīnist |)

1 of, from, or like God or a god: heroes with divine powers | paintings of shipwrecks being prevented by divine intervention. devoted to God; sacred: divine liturgy.

2 informal excellent; delightful: he had the most divine smile | that succulent clementine tasted divine.

The most provocative thing about life, is that it is consistently providing opportunities to evolve and unravel from the ways in which we have become entangled in constructs, concepts and ideologies.

This year, I am walking into a more embodied way of living, breathing and being. To embrace the word and concept divine to me is a physical, spiritual and metaphysical concept.

Over the years, I have been shedding the understanding of the patriarchal faith I was raised in and learning to lean into a holistic approach to spirituality. The Divine does not need to be divorced from the feminine, and the feminine in me does not need to hide from my masculinity. I can stand and breathe within these two elements, knowing that they exist in their states as all of these elements exist.

The Sun and The Moon.

The Day and the Night.

The Light and the Dark.

The Humanity and the Divinity


I am woman, I am fearless
I am sexy, I'm divine…

- Emmy Meli

Onwards,